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What to do when feeling lonely?

Writer: Allison McCue-NapoliAllison McCue-Napoli

Managing feelings of loneliness can be challenging, but you can try several practical and emotional strategies to help ease these feelings. Here are some suggestions:

1. Acknowledge Your Feelings

  • It's okay to feel lonely; it's a natural emotion. Avoid suppressing or ignoring these feelings. Journaling or reflecting on what's causing your loneliness can provide clarity.

2. Strengthen Connections

  • Reach out to loved ones: Call, text, or visit friends or family. Even a simple conversation can make you feel connected.

  • Join a group or community: Consider joining a hobby group, club, or online community where you can meet like-minded people.

  • Volunteer: Helping others can foster a sense of purpose and connect you to a larger community.

3. Engage in Activities You Enjoy

  • Spend time doing things that make you happy, whether reading, cooking, exercising, or creating art. This can boost your mood and provide a sense of fulfillment.

4. Limit Social Media

  • While social media can sometimes be helpful, it can also lead to comparison and exacerbate loneliness. Use it mindfully or take breaks if it feels overwhelming.

5. Practice Self-Compassion

  • Treat yourself with kindness. Engage in self-care activities like taking a relaxing bath, meditating, or practicing mindfulness to stay grounded.

6. Consider Professional Help

  • If feelings of loneliness persist or impact your mental health significantly, consider speaking with a therapist or counselor. They can provide valuable tools and perspectives.

7. Build a Routine

  • A structured routine can help you feel more in control and reduce the aimlessness that sometimes accompanies loneliness.

8. Explore New Social Opportunities

  • Attend community events, sign up for classes, or try new activities that interest you. Meeting people in new environments can help you form fresh connections.

9. Connect with Nature

  • Spend time outdoors. Whether walking in the park, hiking, or simply sitting in your garden, being in nature can improve your mental well-being.

10. Adopt a Pet

  • If feasible, consider adopting a pet. Animals, particularly dogs or cats, can provide companionship and reduce feelings of isolation.

 
 
 

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